Post by HARUKA BENOIT on Jul 27, 2011 17:52:48 GMT -4
[atrb=border, 0, true][atrb=width, 465, true] HARUKAAINEBENOIT twenty two - female - trainer - pansexual i'm a mountain that has been moved, i'm a river that is all dried up, LIKESLIKESLIKESLIKESLIKESLIKESLIKESLIKES Just interacting with Haruka can be a problem. She isn't the social type and tends to avoid other people and conversations. However, if you can get her attention in a positive way, and follow that up with a comment that doesn't upset her, you can talk with her. From here it doesn't take much effort to become someone she will occasionally talk to, an acquaintance. Becoming a friend is a different story. To be a friend you must not only catch her attention and talk to her when the opportunity is there, but you have to earn her trust. Earning her trust would involve proving yourself to be reliable and showing that you truly do care about her. Not only that but you'd have to learn how to figure out what her emotions are without her showing them, because you won't actually see them unless this trust is earned and there are few people around. And even then it will be rare. After becoming a friend one would have to deal with her protectiveness and calm fussing. Though any friend of hers will have gained an always willing ear and a person who truly cares about their well being. open with reason i'm an ocean nothing floats on, i'm a sky that nothing wants to fly in, HATESHATESHATESHATESHATESHATESHATESHATES One upside of her lack of social interaction is that Haruka doesn't make many enemies, and doesn't meet many people she hates. Earning the status as an enemy, someone to avoid at all costs, is almost as hard as becoming friends with Haruka. Thanks to her natural avoidance of conversations and people, just getting her attention is a challenge. Someone with traits she dislikes will probably only succeed in this, as any comment she deems negative or leading into a poor conversation would cause her to leave. Most of the time Haruka will decide she dislikes someone from a meeting like this and avoid talking to them. Even when someone she avoids manages to drag her into conversation, it still takes a lot to even start to irritate her thanks to learning how to control her emotions and keep them in check. If someone can get a rise out of Haruka it can result in two things. Her punching a nearby object, or her punching the person who was pushing her buttons in the face. Either way, getting this rise out of Haruka will usually result in a stronger dislike and biting words at every encounter. If this person can somehow bait her one more time and get another rise out of her they will most likely become enemies in Haruka's eyes and recovering from this would be rather hard. open with reason i'm a sun that doesn't burn hot, i'm a moon that never shows its face, LOVESLOVESLOVESLOVESLOVESLOVESLOVESLOVES Getting Haruka's affection is much more challenging than becoming a friend or an enemy. Not only must someone get her attention and go through the efforts of becoming a friend, but they must further her trust in them to a level where she can confide in them and be sure that nothing she says will be repeated. They must prove to her that they care about her in a way superior to that of a friend, and wait for her to hopefully feel the same way. Even after these feelings are reciprocated getting her to admit to them becomes another challenge. Haruka doesn't deal with emotions well and feels them to be a hindrance and a distraction. So, a person who really wants her must wait for her to clear the confusion in this emotion before she will say anything. This is even harder if someone like this meets her after a break up, as she'll have an even stronger resistance to the feeling and will have even more negative thoughts about giving into them. If someone succeeds in earning this higher trust and getting her to admit her feelings, they will have earned a faithful lover and an especially caring heart. Not only that but they would have earned someone who will work hard to understand and help them with any problems they have. open to friends i'm a mouth that doesn't smile, i'm a word that no one ever wants to say, OTHEROTHEROTHEROTHEROTHEROTHEROTHEROTHER Most everyone is an "other" to Haruka, who is anti-social and a bit cold. These others are the people who may catch her attention, but not be able to hold it, or those who don't catch it all. Others may also be those who are currently stuck between being a friend and a lover, as her emotions will be shaky and her mind will have trouble deciding. open made by corinth of ote w/ lyrics from brand new. |
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